Demi Lovato not dating Niall Horan, happy and single now

 

Demi Lovato Getty Images  - Steven Lawton “Skyscraper” singer Demi Lovato, currently an “X Factor” judge went on record as saying she is not officially dating One Direction singer Niall Horan. Demi had been chatting with Niall via Skype and many assumed they were an official couple.

Realizing her mental health and sense of well-being are important for her, she explains she realizes she would like to be alone for a while. Demi recently came out as having lived with eating disorders, bipolar disorder, and self-harm behaviors for years.

In an interview with Teen Vogue Demi explained the situation between her and Niall and how she feels about working on the “X Factor” judges’ panel:

“He’s a really awesome, sweet guy,”

“But he’s not my boyfriend…I’m in a place right now where I really need to focus on myself.”

“Obviously, I’m still going to like people—or love them—but I need to not be in a relationship for a while because I need to be OK with being alone, first,” she adds. “I’m really happy right now. I never thought it was possible to be happy because of how depressed I was my entire life. But I feel so incredible. It’s like living in a dream.”

It seems Demi Lovato has gained control over her mental health. While struggles with eating disorders, bipolar disorders, and self-harm behaviors can be lifelong challenges, they are controllable.

Watch a video of Demi Lovato sing “Skyscraper”:

Video Credit: YouTube

Sources: US Weekly, MTV UK, Huffington Post
As a single young woman in Hollywood, Lovato stands to gain a great deal if she focuses on her mental health. It seems in the meantime, she will maintain a healthy friendship with One Direction singer Niall Horan.  What do you think of Demi’s dating decision?

One Direction singer Skype dates Demi Lovato

 

Demi Lovato Getty ImagesDisney actress and Skyscraper singer Demi Lovato is rumored to be dating One Direction singer Niall Horan.

The two are reportedly communicating via Skype – a chat program that enables you to both see and hear the person with who you are chatting.

Due to their busy schedules, it seems to be working for them.

The What Makes You Beautiful singer shared some of his thoughts on the potential of his  communication with the Lovato and how it might lead to a dating relationship, during an on air interview with America’s Top 40 host Ryan Seacrest on June 14, 2012.

During the interview, Horan reflected on how he met Lovato and where he thinks his online dates with the Camp Rock star may lead:

“We’ve spoken alright, yeah… So, I got in contact with her, she’s really nice. Um, I don’t know what’s going to happen.”

It’s a start! Both young stars have great potential in making big in the entertainment business. Each one is pursuing their individual career goals and may eventually end up in a memorable Hollywood romance!

Video Credit: Music video by One Direction performing What Makes You Beautiful. (C) 2011 Simco Limited under exclusive license to Sony Music Entertainment UK Limited

Source: Celebuzz

What do you think of how Demi Lovato and Niall Horan met? Have you started dating someone through Skype or another chat program? How did that turn out?

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Dating trends: App lets creepy stalkers meet single women

Online dating websites screen profiles for safety

Dating Trends: Celebrities find dates via email and texting

Online Dating: Foodies seek dates with food lovers

 

Dating trends: App lets creepy stalkers meet single women

 

stalking women app girls around me datelesstodatingSocial media has its perks. You are able to network with others, perhaps make new friends, and even find a date. But where do you draw the line? One app called ‘Girls Around Me’, recently made inaccessible on Facebook, claimed to help you find women around you.

The app not only helped you find them physically, but also allowed you to gain access to their personal information in their Facebook accounts such as gender, birthday, and even photos.

The ‘Girls Around Me’ website was using a catch phrase that insinuated users would gain ‘control’ over women, essentially gaining power over them since they would be able to know them personally, without even having to gain their permission or personally meet them.

Potentially a dangerous app, FourSquare took the initiative to remove the app from their site stating:

“The application was in violation of our API policy, so we reached out to the developer and shut off their API access,” a Foursquare spokeswoman said Saturday. She said Foursquare has a policy against aggregating information across venues to prevent situations like this where someone would present an inappropriate overview of a series of locations.”

The website for ‘Girls Around Me’ boasts:

“Girls Around Me is the perfect complement to any pick-up strategy,”

“And with millions of chicks checking in daily, there’s never been a better time to be on the hunt.”

What does it say about our society and the way some dating singles view the dating experience as a whole? Has the dating scene become so jaded, filled with creepy people, that women are no longer safe connecting with others through social media? Dating trends are impacted by many things in life, including social networking sites.

Are dating relationships at risk of becoming impersonal for fear that you may meet the wrong person through an app such as ‘Girls Around Me’? Should these apps come with warnings for both users and the women being stalked?

What are your thoughts? What do you think the future holds for dating trends?

Sources: MailOnline, The Wallstreet Journal 

Ideas for a foodies Miami date night

 

foodies sheknowsDate night is a special night to share with your partner in a healthy dating relationship or marriage. In Miami, there are many things to check out around the town for foodie couples. Whether it’s a food festival, a fine restaurant, or just the local dive, many opportunities present themselves in this tropical paradise.

By definition, foodies enjoy food, whether it is the taste, smell, or just the look of it! With so many events taking place in Miami, foodie couples are bound to find something the like! Here are a few ideas:

1. Food and wine festivals are plenty throughout the year in Miami. Anything from a down home chili competition, to a fancy festival with the celebrity chefs from The Food Network is bound to show up on your itinerary while in Miami. Visit the eventful website for information on the next food or wine festival coming up on the Miami culinary calendar.

2. How about a culinary tour? Surely a foodie couple would enjoy touring Miami’s finest restaurants. If you take a look at the Miami Culinary Tours website you will see they offer tours such as the South Beach Food Tour and the Little Havana Food Tour – both sharing bits of Miami history.  Not sure which tour to select? Connect with Miami Culinary Tours on Facebook to see what other foodies are saying about their tours!

3. Are you and your foodie date looking to check out the restaurants on your own? If you visit the Saveur website, they share great reviews of local Miami restaurants and offer tips and information on pricing, when to go to the restaurant, and what to expect in terms of atmosphere.

4. On a budget? Never fear frugal foodie friends! There are plenty of choices for you too, anywhere from South Miami to Coral Gables, you will find a place to visit and enjoy at an affordable rate. Check out this article on NBC Miami, 10 Restos for Miami’s Frugal Foodies, to find  information on delectable places to dine at reasonable prices.

So what are you waiting for? Where will you take your foodie lover on your next Miami date night?

Sources: NBC Miami, Miami Culinary Tours, SAVEUR, eventful

Related: Online dating: Foodies seek dates with food lovers

Online dating websites screen profiles for safety

 

online dating textdating caMany singles rely on online dating websites to find a new healthy dating relationships or even marriage. With increased media attention on the dangers of online dating, some singles have become skeptical with the process. Some women have actually been attacked by their online dating match once they meet – a fear that perhaps sits at the back of the mind of someone meeting a potential love match for the first time.

Companies such as eHarmony and Match.com have both agreed to screen their singles that creates personals ads or listings on their dating sites. With increased choices in potential dating partners comes increased risk. Will these screenings help?

A Huffington Post article highlights why the companies reached the agreement with the California Attorney General. After a woman was sexually assaulted, her case reached the California courts and scared many potential online daters. With this news, the state and three major online dating sites, eHarmony, Match.com, and Spark Networks all agreed they would screen future clients from now on.

Online dating is a bit different from traditional dating in that you are never really sure the person with whom you are communicating online is the person you will meet in real life. What are some things you can keep in mind, in addition to knowing companies will screen their clients that may keep you safer in online dating? Here are a few tips:

  • Be cautious in what you share online. Guard personal information as much as you can to avoid any identify theft down the road if something happens.
  • Meet in a neutral location, not your home or theirs.
  • Let someone know that you will meeting another online dating single – this will ensure that someone else knows where you are and is available if you need them.
  • Take your time getting to know whoever you meet online. While you might be anxious to meet someone, it might prove more valuable and safer to you down the road if you take the time to really get to know them a bit more.

What are your thoughts on these online dating companies screening clients who create listings or personal ads on their online dating websites? Do you think this will create healthy dating relationships through safe love matches in the future? How will healthy dating relationships or marriages grow out of this decision?

Sources: Huffington Post

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Dating Trends: Ability to read your partner linked to happiness

Coping with stress together makes marriage stronger

A previous article discussed how being empathetic to your partner’s needs and being able to read them when something is wrong alluded to the fact that knowing what is happening with your partner can lead to relationship satisfaction.

Research released to USA Today by investigators at the online dating website eHarmony.com indicates that the way in which you and your partner support each other during stressful times may also be an indicator of whether your dating relationship or marriage will survive in the long term.

Many people think that facing hardship in a marriage or dating relationship can weaken your passion or sense of connectedness. The eHarmony.com findings indicate otherwise. Gian Gonzaga, one of their leading researchers comments:

“This points to the fact that your partner really has a big impact on how you’re going to respond,” he says.

“Are you compatible in the way you give support? If you’re someone, when stressed out, who needs a partner to listen to you vent and manage your emotions, you need a partner to do that well, as opposed to a partner who is good at giving advice and finding solutions but is really bad at giving emotional support. You want to make sure those ways of having support from a partner are going to mesh with each other.”

With that said, how have you done in your marriage or dating relationship in terms of supporting each other during times of stress? Do your styles of coping and being there for one another align or do you need some work on this area? If you find that your approaches differ vastly, consider discussing areas of improvement with each other.

Chances are your partner may not know what you need when you are in a state of vulnerability. Getting things out in the open may help you both feel better. With time, you will learn what works and what doesn’t; weeding out ineffective methods of supporting each other will allow for the development of stronger modes of emotional support down the road.

Source: USA Today

Related: What is stress, positive and negative examples

Dating Trends: Celebrities find dates via email and texting

 

Texting and email have become the norm when trying to contact others. More and more, we are seeing people connect with each other for business and personal reasons through these electronic mediums to establish and maintain healthy relationships. Even celebrities such as entertainer Skrillex with albums such as Scary Monsters & Nice Sprites began his dating relationship with Grammy award winning singer Ellie Goulding through an email.

In one article, Skrillex is quoted:

‘I sent her an e-mail, like, ‘I’m Skrillex, I don’t know if you know who I am, but I love your s**t. We started texting and talking on the phone.’

With technology on their side, it appears Skrillex and Ellie have been able to stay connected despite busy entertainment business lifestyles. Having made their celebrity relationship public in February 2012, the two seem to be doing well so far.

Online dating is also used by celebrities looking for a date. Actresses Jennifer Aniston of Just Go With It, and Demi Moore, recently divorced from actor Ashton Kutcher, have both taken to online dating websites to find a new relationship – how different is that from texting and sending an email? Think its more or less effective?

Texting has grown rapidly as a preferred method of communicating over the past few years. While it may not always be the ideal method of letting someone know how you feel about them, it’s a great way to open up the door to new relationships. Have you begun a relationship via a text message or email? How did that go?

Source: Entertainmentwise.com

Online Dating: Foodies seek dates with food lovers

 

 

A trend in the online dating scene denotes an increase in foodies turning to online dating for finding a foodie with similar love interests. As people with a passion for food and cooking, online dating web sites are looking to cater to foodies in terms of love interests too! To date, there are a few sites out there that especially list personal ads from food lovers. So far, celebrity chef Jamie Oliver, along with Match.com has set up a special dating site that specifically lets you connect with others with a love for being in the kitchen! Now, a new site, Eater Dating, has launched that also lets singles connect with other foodie singles! One Huff Post food article discusses how the Eater Dating site is affiliated with the How About We online dating site.

Finding a partner that shares your interests is a very good idea to have in mind when searching for your dating partner. Having interests in common can help you establish a solid friendship as you get to know each other. A love for food and spending time together in the kitchen can spark passion for couples. Friendship and passion can form a solid foundation for a loving, long-term relationship, if that’s what you are looking for! What do you think are some potential outcomes from online dating for foodies? Know any foodies looking to connect with others in the internet dating world? How do you think they will like the site? What is interesting about the site is that you are able to post potential date ideas – the ideas for a couple going on a foodie date are limitless! Check out Eater Dating here for yourself.

Sources: Huff Post Food, Eater Dating

Online Dating: Dissatisfaction due to choice overload

In our society, having lots and lots to choose from is often the case. Whether you are buying a car, looking for the latest bestselling book, or trying to check out a new flick, the choices are usually limitless. How does this myriad of choices impact our ability to find a suitable date in the online dating world? Some researchers suggest that our overload of choices as a culture is inhibiting our ability to make sound choices related to dating relationships and getting marriage. Results from all these choices can include delaying our decision to get married (if at all), starting a family, or even getting out onto the dating scene in the first place.

One researcher and author in particular, Dr. Barry Schwartz posits the following:

“Choice overload can make you question the decisions you make before you even make them, it can set you up for unrealistically high expectations, and it can make you blame yourself for any and all failures. In the long run, this can lead to decision-making paralysis. And in a culture that tells us that there is no excuse for falling short of perfection when your options are limitless, too much choice can lead to clinical depression.”

It’s interesting to note that not only do we have too many choices, but that perfection is ultimate characteristic we seek in a partner. With that said, what can that mindset do for a single man or woman in search of a new dating partner? Having expectations regarding what type of partner you want is one thing. But expecting that person to be perfect is an entirely different story. It’s important to keep in mind, that while you do not need to settle for the first person that shows up on your doorstep, or inbox for that matter, it’s also crucial to be aware of what you want in a relationship, and what you are not willing to live with. What have been your experiences in the online dating scene through internet dating sites? How did you feel with the choices you were offered?

Source: CNN Health

Dating Trends: Online dating celebrities gain self-confidence

Everyone is always hearing about Jennifer Aniston and her dating dilemmas. Some reports state she has tried online dating in the past and now actress Demi Moore is also looking to dabble in the internet dating world through the dating site Match.com. Citing increased self-confidence as one of the online dating perks, it seems Demi is looking for new dating opportunities. As a woman that recently ended her marriage to a younger man, how will potential suitors react? Some dating trends indicate older women are seeking younger men in the dating arena. Will Demi find success through cyber dating?

Demi, according to rumor mills, has faced troubles with recent addictions, mood disorders, and decreased self-esteem. Is this part of her growing pains as a recent divorcee? Or is there something deeper here in her role as an older woman dating a younger man? Can online dating really help her with her self-confidence? Demi comments on her current sense of self:

“What scares me is that I’m going to ultimately find out at the end of my life that I’m really not lovable, that I’m not worthy of being loved,”

“That there’s something fundamentally wrong with me and that I wasn’t wanted here in the first place.”

Online dating poses many advantages for singles looking for a date or friendship. When searching through personals, you have the control over who you respond to and who you choose to reply to when approached in an online message. Additionally, you can highlight what you have to offer a potential love match free of bias when you create a profile – something that is a bit more challenging to do in person. Do you think these are some of the reasons celebs such as actress Demi Moore and Jennifer Aniston are turning to online dating? Will Match.com be the answer to Demi Moore’s search for happiness and relationships success?

Source: Showbiz Spy and NDTV Movies